Free Grounding Techniques Worksheet

When anxiety spikes or a feeling gets too big, your body can act like it's in danger even when you're sitting safely in your kitchen. Grounding skills are simple ways to remind your body that you're okay enough right now. This free printable worksheet gathers seven of the ones we use most with clients, with space to note the ones that work for you.

Grounding and Calming Skills worksheet with seven numbered grounding techniques, from Vital Mind Psychology

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What is grounding?

Grounding means bringing your attention back to the present moment, through your breath, your senses, and your body. When stress takes over, your body's alarm system can get stuck in the "on" position. Grounding gently turns it down. It also helps when you go the other way and feel numb, foggy, or far away.

These skills work best when they're familiar, so it helps to practise them on calmer days, not only in hard moments.

What's on the worksheet

  1. The physiological sigh. A double inhale through the nose, then a long, slow breath out.
  2. Box breathing. In for 4, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4.
  3. 5-4-3-2-1 senses. Name things you can see, feel, hear, smell, and taste.
  4. Cold water. Cool water on your face or something cold in your hands.
  5. Feet on the floor. Feel the ground under you and name where you are.
  6. Butterfly hug or hand on heart. Slow, gentle tapping or a warm hand over your chest.
  7. Name the feeling. Put quiet words to what's happening inside.

At the bottom there's a "My go-to skills" box where you can write down the ones that help you most.

When to use these skills

  • When you notice panic or racing thoughts
  • When you feel on edge or keyed up
  • When you feel numb, spacey, or far away
  • Before a hard conversation or appointment

Tips for making them work

  • Start small. Pick one or two skills to try first. You don't need all seven.
  • Try another if one doesn't fit. Different skills work for different people and different moments.
  • Go slowly. With 5-4-3-2-1, get specific: not just "a chair," but "the cold metal of the chair leg."
  • Adjust as needed. If holding your breath feels uncomfortable, shorten the holds or skip them. If you have a heart condition, check with your doctor before using cold water.

Grounding won't make hard feelings disappear, and it isn't meant to. It gives you enough steadiness to get through the moment and decide what you need next.

Download the Free Worksheet (PDF)

Looking for more? Browse our other free handouts, including a window of tolerance worksheet and a feelings wheel.

If you'd like support working through this with someone, the counsellors at Vital Mind Psychology in Cochrane are here to help.